Thursday, December 30, 2010

Hypnosis for Weight Loss: Points to Ponder

Weight loss is a concern for many people who are overweight but have not found conventional methods useful for them. Hypnosis for weight loss is a relatively new technique and it has proved effective for the people. The effective use of hypnosis can help in the cure of various phobias like insomnia, smoking and weight loss. But people do not think of it as a proper medicine and are suspicious about its use and the benefits they can get from it. Here are a few things you should consider before you undergo a hypnotherapy.

Will to Lose Weight

Many people believe that hypnosis is all about will power and it will make them eat healthy food. There is no doubt that the will power is the most important part if you want to get positive results from any weight loss method. We all make commitments to ourselves, when we are overweight, that we will not eat fast food or any food containing fat but seldom stand our ground. Same goes for exercise and gym and we are not even willing to go for a walk regularly because we are not committed enough to lose our weight.

How to Interpret the Message?

If you have to lose weight, you will have to make a strong commitment to yourself and will have to prepare your mind. But a question arises here, how to prepare the mind and body to act on something? It is just like programming the body like a computer but the problem here is that the message has to be conveyed to the subconscious which does not speak any language. It uses its own medium to communicate with the body.

Can Hypnosis Do It?

Hypnosis can send this message to the subconscious but may not be in a way in which we intend to send it. It will translate the message in its own way and the result will depend on the beliefs and the past experiences of the person undergoing the hypnosis. Long hypnotherapy sessions have proved fruitful for the people and they gradually reduce ones craving for food.

Will it Work?

During the hypnosis, messages like 'I don't like pizza' and 'I love salad' may work for one person but may not work for the other. It is entirely up to the subconscious how it translates the messages. The accuracy of interpretation is again dependent on the past experiences and the state of the mind during hypnotherapy.

Hypnosis for weight loss will produce results for you if you are determined enough to get rid of the extra pile of fat in your tummy. It alone, like any other medicine or technique, will not help you in reducing your weight unless you make changes to your diet and do exercise regularly. People who follow diet plans put on weight after some time because their plan is not working for them and their craving for food does not decrease with time. You will have to make changes in your life style to get rid of layers of fat and it will not happen overnight.

© 2010 Usman Shahid

Sunday, December 26, 2010

7 Tips to Make Your Ex-Girlfriend Jealous

Life takes some difficult twists and turns and there are ups and downs in almost every relationship. But for some people, it is too difficult to get over the breakups and they want to take revenge no matter what it takes. It hurts more when something unexpected happens suddenly. You think everything is going well but suddenly your girlfriend dumps you and goes away.

She may have left you for some other guy or for some other reason but you would want to make her jealous and make her feel the pain you are going through. You may do it on purpose to make her think about you or you may want to show her that you got someone better than her. Sometimes men want to make their ex jealous because they desperately want them back.

The trick behind making her jealous is that she should not know about it. Make it as natural as possible and do not try too hard to get her attention. If she knows about it then the game will end before its beginning. You may ask your friends for suggestions and may get some witty advice too but you do not have to be wise or clever to make your ex-girlfriend jealous. Here are a few simple tips that can help you in achieving your goal and these really work.

1. Ignore her: No matter what is the reason of breakup, she will be expecting your call or texts or will be thinking that you are depressed and waiting for her. Don't let her hopes get too high and ignore her completely, even if you are a little depressed. She will definitely think she underestimated you and may be you did not need her at all.

2. Stop being a stalker: This is the worst thing guys do and it never really helps. Do not try to contact her by any means. If she thinks she was wrong then she will contact you herself or at least will show signs that she wants to come back.

3. Pay attention to yourself: Getting over may not be an easy part for you and you may have been in a long relationship with her. Try to divert your attention by doing some activities rather than shut yourself at home and wait for her call or e-mail. Instead spend some time in your grooming and start going out. People in your locality will start noticing you and you may enjoy their company too.

4. Indulge yourself: Once you start going out, there are better chances of getting indulged with other women and this may help you in getting over the breakup and moving forward. Many men make a mistake of going for their female friends after their breakup which is wrong. If your ex-girlfriend knows about it then she will laugh at your face and this is the last thing you would want. Try to date a woman unknown to her and possibly better than you ex-girlfriend in every way.

5. Make her regret: If she was on a mistake and broke up with you on purpose then make her regret for what she did. Act as if you do not care about it that she is no more in your life and possibly show her that you are having fun without her. If you can date the best friend of your ex then this will really make her aggressive.

6. Business and wealth: Try to concentrate on your business or job and make money. This is a weak point of women and there are better chances of attracting more women when you have a nice car and a good healthy business at your back. If your ex-girlfriend comes to know about how wealthy you are now, she will regret her decision of leaving you.

7. Show her your new girl: If you find a really nice girl then date her in the presence of your ex-girlfriend intentionally. And to put the final nail in the coffin, kiss her passionately in front of your ex but act as you do not know she is there. But don't forget, same thing might happen to you too so your purpose should be to make her jealous and not to get jealous from her.

These simple tips will really help you in making your ex-girlfriend jealous and will also help you in getting over a relationship that didn't leave any charm in your life.

© 2010 Usman Shahid